harmony on Wednesday May 7, 2008
 
THANKS FOR BEING A FUN AND LOVING GRANDPA! 

I'm grateful for the faithful home you presided over that raised my husband, for your faith and service in the church, for all the fun conversations we've had, for accepting me into the family and loving me as I am.  Thank you for having fun with your grandkids and providing opportunities for all of us to get together and stay united as a family.  Hope you have a good birthday! Can't wait for July!
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docenah on Wednesday May 7, 2008
Happy Birthday, Dad. I can see the love you have for your grandchildren from these pictures. You were and still are, a fun dad. Hope your field work with mom is going well. That's the perfect thing for you to be doing on your birthday. I love you.
janicer on Wednesday May 7, 2008
Haooy birthday from your mom and dad, also.  You have always been a special son, and now a special husband, father and grandfather.  Have a  wonderful day.  Love, Mom and Dad
bruce_roundy on Saturday May 10, 2008

Harmony- thanks for the nice pictures and always your thoughtfulness.  Thanks Docena and Mom- It's nice to be remembered even if I'm trying to forget my age.  Mom and I had a fun trip with some work and some nice hiking.  Now we look forward to a great time to have Darrell home and see many of you.  We are very blessed and will miss Harmony, Spencer, Caditos-schmeditos and Pasley but are anxious to see everyone in May-July.

love, dad 

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harmony on Saturday May 3, 2008
Okay, here we are at the last part of our trip! 


We went to Keukenhof in the morning, which for those who dont' know is the huge garden outside of Amsterdam (in Lisse) which showcases tulips and other spring flowers beautifully and is very popular!  It was like Disneyland in the summer.  They need to work on their crowd management.  There were only like two toilets in the whole place and they charge you .40 to use it!  which is just lame.  So we spent a half hour going to the bathroom.  The food lines were insane as well as the prices.  But the tulips and beauty of the place were worth it.  For those who don't know, I love tulips!  There were so many kinds I'd never seen, and its so cool how they use them like paint to create art on the ground.  Very cool.  The weather and lighting was beautiful.  They have art in the park also and fountains, and ways to interact wtih the land that are fun for the kids and everyone. 



Then we left and headed to Kinderdijk which is a place where there about 20 windmills, which are fascinating.  Do you know anything about them and what they're for?  Because I didn't, and still don't really understand it.  I read about it there but the terminology and concepts are so foreign to me.  Apparently they are part of the complex system which tries to keep land out of water.  They act as pumps somehow and together with dikes and sluices, and other things try to maintain dry land in between the canals.  And they sure are cool looking.  We had hoped to rent bikes and ride them at some point in our trip, but we missed out in Kinderdijk because the rental shop was already closed.  But we souvenir shopped there and Cado got clogs and Paisley got a little Porcelain doll.  I got a tulip vase with the classic dutch blue and white painting style.  Daddy got to spend money!


We walked along the path to look at the windmills and took pictures and then we left. And we ate dinner at Burger King!  Very exciting.  Actually I was impressed, they do a whole car tray thing for the kids.  Then we swam at the hotel pool that night, which was a highlight for the kids.  They really love swimming. 



The next morning we got ready early and headed off for church. There was an English branch meeting right in Leiden.  We went to McDonalds for breakfast.  i have to say we pretty much missed out on any Dutch food specialties there may be, which is kind of a bummer, but we had to do what we had to do. 

Then we headed home. We let Cado wear his clogs to church and on the trip home.  We stopped along the road and he got to get out and play for awhile (in Germany).  And apparently this was one of his favorite parts of the trip because he told Grami about it.  He got down on the ground and pulled and tore at the long grass "searching for treasure."  And rolling down the hill and fighting imaginary foe.  This moment only lasted 10-15 minutes but for him it was one of the most memorable!  At one point during this I heard him say, "My shoes are better than yours..." I imagine he was speaking to a pirate enemy of his.

Paisley was hilarious on the drive.  She narrates and tells stories and whatever pops into her head, with singing.  She was singing about a mouse and a "crash can."  And then she was also playing with her magna doodle putting the orange pen in and out of the handle and she said, "Oh Flounder! don't be such a guppy."  She loves the Little Mermaid and has become quite the movie quoter.  I would say her favorites are Little Mermaid, Robin Hood, Winnie the Pooh, and Jungle Book. She watches the whole jungle book movie looking forward to the girl who sings at the end.  She thinks she says, "I flush the water away."  and she sings it in such a sweet voice and does the actions with her hair just like the girl.  (she really says, "I will go to fetch the water").  Paisley is always singing these days.  She learns songs quickly and doesn't seem to have any shyness about it which I hope lasts. 

The German landscape is amazing, I hope we get a chance to explore it for real sometime. Oh, and its finally Spring here (I think!) and so we're going to see about doing a bike ride today. 

Well, thats our trip!  Hope it wasn't too boring!  I can sigh relief that its all documented now, and you can sigh relief that I'm done sharing it!
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harmony on Saturday May 3, 2008
Oh, and my thoughts on Holland are that it is a really cool place.  Its beautiful, fascinating and culturally rich.  There are so many cool places to visit, we barely skimmed the surface.  I would love to go back someday.  I think the biking and boating are such a neat part of their culture, and wish we could have learned a little bit about Dutch cuisine by tasting it.  The Dutch people all speak English, and I don't think I'm exaggerating.  Everyone we met seemed very nice and welcoming also.  Overall a beautiful and cool place to visit.
marisdavid on Saturday May 3, 2008
What wonderful adventures you are having.  I am so excited for you.  Well I am still not getting Grandpa to get tickets for coming.  We are poor lately though.  Harmony I enjoy reading about your adventures, and another girl is exciting.  We have just knocked ourselves out today in the yard and house- it is overated, ha.  I would sure like to scale down.  Looks like a good possibility that Mike and Kirsten will be in beautiiful BOise.  Well not too much excitement here.  Love you Paisley and Cado- hugs and kisses from Great Maris
bruce_roundy on Saturday May 3, 2008

Thanks for the great report.  We love to see the pictures, hear about the kids, and follow you in your adventures.  Thanks so much for  keeping us informed.

 

dad

Peter312 on Sunday May 4, 2008
Sounds like a place we need to visit when we are there.  I got my birth certificate, and am going down tomorrow to get the paperwork for my passport.    We love the report and the photos, what an adventure, sounds like the kids loved it also!!!
harmony on Sunday May 4, 2008
Yay Dad! I'm so glad you're taking care of that!  Once you guys have your plans set for coming we'll have to make some plans!
Peter312 on Monday May 5, 2008
Sounds great!
docenah on Tuesday May 6, 2008
Harmony,

Thanks for sharing the pictures and the entries. It's so cool that you can journal for all of us to read and for posterity.

By the way, who's moving to Boise? That's where we live. It's wonderful here. Call us.

Docena
harmony on Wednesday May 7, 2008
yeah, i thought of that!  Its my aunt Kirsten, my mom's sister, but I'm not sure if they really are or not, i haven't heard an official announcement.  but if they do, I was planning on informing you both!
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harmony on Saturday May 3, 2008
The next morning (still in Brussels) we wanted to try to visit the couple and their house that we lived in in 2003. It took forever to find it, because it's Europe for one thing, and because Spencer was determined to figure it out on his own!  Eventually he pulled over and allowed me to grab the map from the trunk and we discovered we were quite far from our destination.  In his defense, it tends to be that in Europe when faced with a fork in the road, it can take you in a completely different direction and make it difficult to get back.  Well, we arrived at the Tancre residence in the nick of time.  Their garage was open and the car was on.  I thought, oh maybe they're just getting home.  We pulled in behind them and I got out. Michelle came out and not recognizing (or expecting me in the least) politely told me that she was trying to leave and we were in her way.  I told her who I was, and it took her awhile and some explaining before she remembered who we were. Then she gladly turned off her car and invited us in for a few minutes.  It was nice to see her and visit for a bit, and she insisted several times that we return with a warning in the future (so we got her number and address) and when Jacques was home, and make a real visit of it.  Which hopefully we'll be able to do.



On our way to Amsterdam we stopped at a gas station for lunch.  It was quite good. The hot dog buns are brilliant, they're a roll of bread with a hole/tube for the hot dog.  When we arrived in Amsterdam we parked in a garage and grabbed a free book/map they had there which was very appreciated.  Then we found our way to the Anne Frank House.  On the way we noticed all the bikes and people biking.  And the canals on every street wtih little boats lining them.  The buildings are cool and overall the place has a really unique and charming atmosphere.



We decided to switch off with the Anne Frank museum since Paisley was asleep in the stroller.  So I ended up taking Cado through.  I had been concerned when we first thought of going here before the trip, of how we would deal with Cado.  For those who don't know, Cado is very sensitive, observant, and doesn't miss anything, especially when it involves things that children his age shouldn't know about or worry about.  He can hear the word blood from miles away.  And he has to know and understand everything and asks "Why?" about a million times a day.  So I had tried to research online about the museum and it looked like maybe the horror of the Nazis and WWII wouldn't be obvious and it could just be like going through an old house. But somehow I didn't  think to ask at the desk, and in any case it would have been impossible without an hour of crying to prevent him from going in.  But I didn't want to be the one to have to deal with it, and somehow I forgot that too and so he ended up coming with me. Part of the reason why I didn't want him to go with me is because I wanted to really be able to enjoy and think and read and not be worrying about him or rushing through.  But thats what happened.   It was still cool to be there though.  I'm glad we did it.  My poor, sweet Cado though.  At first it looked like it would be okay, I just told him it was an old house that someone lived in, but he isn't satisfied with partial understanding, he has to know everything.  So he asked more and more questions, and then he caught a glimpse of a video that showed the Nazis and it was over from there.  "Who are they?"  "What are they doing?"  "Where are the people who used to live here?"  "How did they die?"  "But why?"  He was still doing okay, but getting more concerned.  And then at the end it all the sudden came down on him and he started balling.


Spencer and I tried to answer his questions and comfort him. He said, "I'm sad that they died!  Why did the bad people kill them? Why?"  We told him that the depth and extent of that evil is incomprehensible to most people and that they were decieved by Satan.  Then on his own he said, "Will they live again and be resurrected? Will Jesus save them?”  We told him yes, and that brought him the most comfort.  I can't imagine not being sure of that truth and able to share it with my children. I can't imagine saying, "No Cado, this life is it.  Its over for them, they're dead and gone, and the people who did bad got away with it." He is such a missionary already in sharing the truth of Jesus Christ's resurrection and the gospel.  People were listening and touched by this innocent and pure 3 yr. old who is so concerned about the salvation and welfare of his fellowmen.  We talked about the mercy and justice of God, that those who did horrible things would be punished.  He was still feeling weighed down by it all when Spencer began the tour with Paisley, and I took him outside to walk along the canal.  Then all the sudden out walking his face brightened and he looked at me and with a sudden epiphany and cheerful resolution said, “They will live again huh! They are happy with God. He will save them. Its okay!  They will live again!  And God will put the bad guys in prison."  Everything was right in the world again.  I told Cado he is a very special and sweet boy and that he has a Hero Heart.  That the more people like him there are in the world the better off we'll be and able to stop that kind of evil from happening.  Spencer went through the house even quicker than we did, thinking of me and Cado, which was sweet.  But we're both glad we did it.

After that we started walking toward the center of the city.  On the way Cado spotted "a treasure," a teardrop shaped piece of translucent plastic with a hole in it (still have no idea what it was).  He said it was a crystal and he had to have it.  We said No, Cado, not everything is a treasure, some things are just trash and we don't know where that's been or what it is, etc.  Thus began a 1/2 hour of the most devastated crying, pleading and "why"-ing.  Its hard for me, I normally end up feeling very worn down by that and just start thinking, whatever!  fine!  just have the piece of trash.  It can't be that bad, not as bad as hearing his heart break because he can't have it!  We said a prayer with him and Spencer tried to make him one out of paper.  As soon as he handed it to him, it blew away, which began wave two of the crisis.  I'm so grateful my husband can keep his head on straight when Cado is having a meltdown, because it is very hard for me.  I either give in or get mad!  I don't even remember how it resolved, but it did.  It was definitely partly due to lack of sleep, overtiredness, and his emotions alredy being stretched.



The rest of the night was great.  There was a fair wtih rides, games and food going on in the center and it was a blast.  We watched a man do Chinese juggling and make comedy at the same time.  An old man who appeared to be at least partially senile walked by right in front of him, while he was swinging this thing around, and the guy said, "Hello there. The he looked at him walking away and said, "Excuse my father.  I told him to stay at home . .."  It was funny.  Maybe you had to be there. We rode the ferris wheel and Cado played a game and the kids danced to the music.

We then went to our hotel, which was AWESOME! The Holiday Inn in Leiden (about a half hr out of Amsterdam) was a breath of fresh American air!  It had a pool and a huge restaurant in the center (not that we ate there it was 17 euro for breakfast),   and a playground, and a big room with two queen beds, a bath/shower, etc.  It was nice, and it cost nice too.


Join us in Keukenhof in Kinderdijk next!
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spencer on Saturday May 3, 2008
I'm really glad we went to Amsterdam, and can't figure out why we didn't go there when we lived in Brussels.  It is a very unique town, with its canals, boats, brick houses/buildings everywhere.



Harmony, you missed the parrots that we walked by that copied your laugh.  That was awesome!
harmony on Sunday May 4, 2008
oh yeah.  I wish I had time to share some of the videos.  That was a funny parrot. And the other one just squawked super loud.
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Thanks for your comment on my blog!  Its nice to hear word from you!  I like getting updates on family, so I appreciate that I've heard about Micah.  I'm glad he is well.  Feel free to write an update on roundbook of your family's goings-on! And by the way, you can decide who you want to be connected to, like you can remove my Dad's side of the family or the Roundy's, etc. and just have it be family (and friends) who are part of your family. You can create new groups, etc. And you can put friends and family email addresses into the invite function and ask them to connect to you.
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harmony on Wednesday April 30, 2008
* B A B Y ! *

Ha, Ha! Do you really think I would give up such anticipated news so easily!

So, sorry to divert from my travel tales, but today we found out the gender of our baby who is due in mid-September.

  
                you can see the cute nose here and one arm                  we were told you can see her face here, but I think
                                                                                                                                     she's cuter than that!


The kids came and they were both so cute.  Cado was really excited to find out.  Paisley kept saying,"what is she doing to mommy?" It didn't take long for the technician to discover that I am pregnant with une fille! Daddy said "you're going to have another sister!"  Cado's expression was one of joy and surprise, and then he said,"and not a brother this time, because they come one at a time, but another time, after my other birthday then we'll have a brother." He said stuff like this a few times which made me kind of sad for him since he clearly would prefer a brother.  I sure hope he gets what he wants.  I'm starting to wonder if Grandma Roundy didn't have a prophetic dream when she dreamed of Cado with 5 sisters.  And Grami's dream has now proven to be prophetic since she dreamed of us with a second girl.  I have to say I really hope thats not the case!  I'm attached to balance, and I think Cado would really enjoy a brother.


  We told Paisley,"now you have the sister you're always talking about."  She does talk about a sister quite often. "This is for my sister," or "when I was with my sister..."  I think she might mean her girlfriends.  Paisley just said to me, like she was saying then, "what'd that lady do to you?  D'you have a baby in your belly? O-oh! (a happy singing oh) Did we check the baby today!", "she check my mommy have "belly" inside." (sometimes she mixes belly and baby)

It was fun to see the baby moving around.  I am now feeling the movements stronger each day, in fact, as if in response to saying that, SHE is kicking my lower abdomen with the most force I've felt yet! Its taken longer to feel the movements because the placenta is in the front and acts like a cushion. Just like we saw with our other kids' ultrasounds her nose stands out for being adorable.

I have to admit I feel more surprised then I
would have if it had been a boy, and the idea is taking some mental adjusting.  Before we found out my thoughts ran thus: I picture having a boy next, or in general having more boys than girls, I think I pictured boy,girl,boy,boy,girl,boy or something along those lines (that is if we have 4-6 kids, who knows).  It's not that I felt I was carrying a boy whereas with Cado and Paisley I had more of a feeling (and in both cases was right!).  But I began to think, that thought has no foundation, its just what I imagine and my imagination has nothing to do with reality!  I also started thinking how probable is it that my friend Jennie who has the identical family to us right now and is having a boy in July, and I, could end up with 3 exact matches; it seems unlikely (though for any mathematically inclined people (spencer), I'm sure this doesn't hold up at all).  And I thought it's probably going to be a girl just because I don't expect it to be. 
 

I am excited, but the idea of a second girl is strange to me, in a way I didn't anticipate.  I feel a strange sadness for Paisley, which I'm sure most of you women with sisters can tell me is unfounded and that having a sister is wonderful.  Most of my childhood I wanted a sister soooo bad.  I even cried when I was 7 and Jeffrey was born, though of course I got over it and thought he was the cutest, funnest thing since, well, Josh!  But I gradually grew out of my desire for a sister, I think only now I am fully conscious of that when I think of this new and unfamiliar dynamic.  It's just hitting me that I eventually decided not having a sister was great.  I feel like I have a different relationship with my parents and even with myself and girlfriends than I would have had I had a sister.  I imagine there would be jealousy and comparing and competition, and I'm glad I was spared that.  I'm not the girl with the prettier, smarter, etc. sister, I'm just Harmony.  And Paisley and I have always had such a special bond, she's "my girl" and now she'll be one of my girls.  I don't want our closeness to change, but I don't want to not have that same closeness with the other girl.  It's just unknown territory in so many ways!

And I also feel a strange feeling of loss about having a third child, which doesn't make sense mathematically either! (but then math was never my best subject.)  I feel like, things are g
ood how they are, we've got two beautiful and unique children who have a bond of their own, and I'm certainly challenged enough as a mother.  For one thing, I don't feel qualified to handle the responsibility and patience required with an additional child (and especially here where things are more difficult anyway). Another thing is a feeling of having my attention being divided between three instead of two, which means less attention (or a loss, hey maybe this can work mathematically) for the two.  Also there's the strain on travel and other ease of doing things, and strain on money, time, energy, etc. which add up to some losses.  I don't need a lecture on how wonderful it will be and all of the blessings and joys, (though here I am opening myself up for such things and for judgment) I do know those things will happen, and I do feel blessed that I can bring children into the world, nevertheless these feelings are there and real and I think its better to confront them and try to deal with them now so I won't be blindsighted if any of them are founded.  The truth is I'm lacking in many necessary mother skills, like patience and unselfishness, and time management, and sweetness, kindness, wisdom, order, proper motivating (discipline/reward).  I have a lot to work on and its overwhelming at times.  Though I think these feelings are cyclical and just a couple weeks ago I was feeling pretty good about my mothering.

So, I guess I probably should have just lie
d and said, "I'm soooo excited to be having a third child and a second girl!  I can't wait!  It's going to be so awesome, etc." I wonder if my emotional honesty ends up giving the impression that I'm a whiner and pessimist, and maybe I am!  But I hope my joy, gratitude and positivity comes through at times also.



I love the sweet, beautiful girl I already have. Another girl will be fun, new, and I'm sure an adventure!  I look forward to meeting and getting to know her.  I feel great about the two older siblings she has.  Paisley is so sweet with all her babies and dolls.  And Cado is also sweet, and likes to be the big brother, help, and take responsibilities.  I just hope I can improve and be the kind of mother they all deserve!
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jmil on Wednesday April 30, 2008
Harmony, I soooo know what you are going through.  Being a mother of one boy and then two girls.  I still get worried when I pick up Merica and say "You are the cutest sweet girl of mine"  because she is cute and sweet and it doesn't mean that I don't also think that Liberty is the cutest sweet girl of mine.  But when I catch my self saying things like that I worry how Liberty feels and I immediately comment on her as well.  I don't worry about it the other way as Merica has no idea, but I worry the day will come.  Will one think I favor the other over them when I don't?  It was so comfortable when I just had the best boy and the best girl.  I have found that I have to constantly tell myself not to worry about it, because it is the worrying my kids will pick up on and not the compliments.  Be honest and true with your feelings of love for them and things will work out.  Harmony I can tell you have been awesome at showing your love for the two sweet kids you have and I know you'll figure out how to handle a third.  Just remember to take one day at a time and try not to stress and worry about the what ifs this new child will bring.
harmony on Wednesday April 30, 2008
Thanks Joy!  Ever since we found out today I have actually thought, Hey, now my family is just like Joy's!  It's nice to know you struggle with that, and I appreciate your words of wisdom and encouragement! 
spencer on Wednesday April 30, 2008
So for Cado we decided not to find out and the surprise was great.   For Paisley I did not want to find out at all but I didn't have much of a say and we found out.  With this one, I was really excited to find out the gender. 



Being the mathematician I am, I put together multiple formulas, adding and subtracting numbers, determining variables based on cosines, etc. and was quite sure there was a 50% chance we'd be having another boy and a 50% chance we'd be having another girl, so it was no surprise to me when we found out we were having one of those.    (the smiley wink implies sarcasm).



Cado is really taking to the role of big brother who looks after everyone.  Today he was making a list of things we'll need for the baby (crib, etc.).  Paisley is crazier every day, her personality is exploding.



I really relate to you (Harmony) on not being ready for another kid, for my own weaknesses and inabilities.  But that doesn't change how excited I am or my confidence that together we'll stay a beautiful and strong family.  Our kids are very fortunate to have you as such a dedicated mother.



Now what storage box did we put the girl baby clothes in?
spencer on Wednesday April 30, 2008
Oh, and did you notice how beautiful Harmony looks?  I did.
Artigam on Wednesday April 30, 2008

Harmony as I read your blog your thoughts about the strange feeling you are having about having a second girl is something I have been feeling lately too.  As you know I have two sisters, and having sisters especially one so close in age has been one of the best things in my life.  So much so that it has been my wish, and we are trying now to have another child so that Amelia could experience it as well.  However, even though I am not even pregnant yet, much less with a boy or girl, I keep having this feeling that maybe I don't want another girl.  That it would take away from my relationship with Amelia.  But then I remind myself of the amazing blessing that Christin and Lauren have been in my life.  Christin lives right down the street and she has been there for every important moment in my life.  She was the person I told my secrets too, I looked up too, I shared everything with.  Of course I love my brother too, but there is something so wonderful about having sisters to share my life with.  So I remind myself a sister would be a gift to Amelia even if I have a strange sense of doubt now.

spencer on Wednesday April 30, 2008
That is true, I don't know if I ever told any of my brothers a secret.
Tami on Wednesday April 30, 2008
My oh my,  I was pretty sure it was going to be a boy and although I told myself it didn't matter boy or girl,  I was surprised too, like you Harmony,  and a bit disappointed mostly for Cado,  I really wanted him to have a brother,  I guess because he is older and was so excited from the beginning of your pregnancy and vocal about wanting a brother.  I know he will be a great big brother to another sister as he already is to Paisley.  I also see how close Mom and daughter are and worry a bit about that too.  All in all I guess it took awhile to sink in that there is a girl or the way.   I also thought I was right so far on guessing the sex of the other two so I would be again. HA.   I AM so excited though, and it doesn't matter to me.   I hope to have many wonderful grandchildren, girls and boys and I know that each child is special and unique and a wonderful blessing to our family.  I can't wait.  I hear your concerns Harmony and you already know its not going to be easy, but you are a wonderful mother and there is no limit on love.  You and Spencer make a terrific team.  Your children are smart and beautiful and full of life!  Yes, I am partial.  I think my grandchildren are the moon and the stars and more.  I know when this little girl comes you will feel like its so right and your family wouldn't be complete without her.  I love you and can't wait to kiss your belly and say hello to that sweet baby girl, and of course to my other very special grandkids, Cado and Paisley.   Congratulations !
jourdanboynton on Thursday May 1, 2008
Hey Harm--I'm commenting. YAY!



Honestly? I wish I had  MILLION sisters! I have NEVER been jealous of, or comparing with my sisters. They have only been the greatest blessing in my life. For that reason alone, I want as many girls as Heavenly Father will let me have (and I don't even have ANY!).



I truly believe that women need women more than men need men. My sister is the best friend I will ever have and I love her as much as my children, only in a different way.



So, three cheers for sisters! You are going to have a BLAST! (plus, you can put all of Paisley's adorable clothes to good use...it really is more economical having the same gender back-to-back.)





Congrats to ALL of you. You rock Harm! Now when am I going to join you??? I hope soon.
spencer on Thursday May 1, 2008




Just in case I didn't make it clear.  I'm really very excited to be having another girl!
Virginia on Thursday May 1, 2008

Well, I am excited you are having another girl - surprised but excited.  I've been wrong every time.  Think of it this way:  Boys leave home and take care of their wives and family.  Most girls still want to be near their mothers - well in most cases.  So, you will have joy in your posterity now and when you are a grandma.  And Harmony, you have enough love to go around.  Your children may get on your nerves at times, but it is very obvious that you love them because you find such joy in every little thing that your children do  and say.  A big congratulations! 

LaurenChild on Thursday May 1, 2008
I'd have to agree with Marin. I can't imagine what it must be like to have such beautiful children and to be expecting another on the way... but I know from my experience atleast that there was never competition to be the better sister, atleast in our family. My sister's are wonderful and I loved growing up looking up to them. There's something really special about the bond one has with her sister, and I'm so excited for Paisley that she will get to experience it.
Peter312 on Thursday May 1, 2008
I am excited that you are having another girl, I always wanted another girl in our family for you Harmony.  You were very special, and I can see why it would be hard.  I love the pictures and I can't wait to see that new little addition when we come in the Fall.  You will do great, and don't be so hard on yourself, your a great Mom, and Cado, Paisley and this new precious girl, will always feel loved by you!  So how does Polka Dot March strike you?  Just kidding.  I love you
kapiolani on Friday May 2, 2008
Harm,

Congrats on your news!  Marissa is sitting here next to me and she suggests the name Sephora.  We have the cutest little French girl in our neighborhood with that name.  She's a doll.  Kado may be a little sad at the moment for the news to be a boy, but he sure will love and protect those two little sisters.  He'll be a great big brother.  And who knows, maybe #4 will be a boy, and #5 be another boy. 

Glad to hear news of you and the family.
docenah on Tuesday May 6, 2008
I was surprised when I had more than one girl since I am the only girl in my family. But it's been great! I was worried I wouldn't know how to be a mother to a girl and now I have three. I didn't get to swap clothes with a sister when I was growing up. I've experienced that lately with my daughter, Megan who is almost 14. Harmony, you will be a great mother to each and every one of your children. What's so exciting about having a third is that you realize even more that each child is unique. Cado is Cado, not just a boy. Paisley is Paisley and not just a girl, because this next girl will be completely different.
vmogle on Friday May 23, 2008
Yay for little girls!  I can't tell you how much Paisley and her sister are going to be best of friends.  Plus, this little one will be so close in age to my little Brooklyn.  Now, I am a little biased having two girls and the third on the way, but I think that little girls hold a special place in their daddy's hearts and their mommy's arms.
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harmony on Tuesday April 29, 2008
Okay, so we started Thurs 24th with a drive into the GRUND. Which if I didn't explain before is this huge canyon type thing in the middle of the city which has sort of castle or fort walls built into the natural stone walls and is crossed by huge bridges, and is very cool.  We got some patisseries and walked out onto one of the Grund walls to eat them.  I always feel like I could eat more pastries, lots more!  So its a good thing our budget won't allow it, its the only thing stopping me!  Then we walked along the walls and "turrets" (does that work?).  The kids loved it.  There was lots of talk of Kings, Princes, and castles from Cado with Paisley following along.  We had lots of fun exploring. 

Paisley rode on Daddy's shoulders for quite a long time, (yay for Dads!) and sang most of the time.  She just sings everything and anything that pops into her head.  Sometimes its like a narration of whats going on, sometimes its just made up or nonsense, but its always the sweetest, cutest thing!  And she doesn't seem to get shy about it when she knows your paying attention.  And sometimes its just silly and crazy.  She has such a unique and sweet talking and singing voice, which others have actually remarked on quite often.  And she is so exaggerated with her facial expressions.  She can have the sweetest most angelic face, or be goofy and zany, or pull angry faces.  She uses her whole face to say words.  And she often does this eye wink when she's intense about something.

Cado was jumping from wall to wall (the highest may have been 10 ft off the ground?) on one of the fort looking places, and some ladies walking by got really scared and kindly alerted me to what Cado was doing.  I felt like a bad mom because the truth is I was well aware of it, but its Cado!  They said, "Il n'a pas peur?"  I said,"non, rien!" (he isn't scared? no not at all.) 

Then we headed out to get some lunch and go to Brussels.  We wanted to go to this fair thing with different food vendors but when we got up to the city all of the parking lots were at or near full capacity with lines of cars streaming out of them.  Crazy.  So we started leaving the city when suddenly Paisley threw up completely unexpectedly.  We pulled over and took care of the poor dear who was very frightened by it.  And realized we were right next to a mall wtih an eatery so we went there for lunch.  Paisley was sort of scared after that the whole trip of eating in the car (even though she wasn't eating in the car when it happened).  We think maybe it was car sickness because she was looking down and Daddy was going around a roundpoint to try and figure out where to go.  So we told her to look up on the drive.  Cado was very concerned and after that he would sometimes freak out if Paisley was looking down.  "Look up Paisley! Look up!"

The drive to Brussels is not far, but oh so far with two difficult kids.  That was one of the worst drives for some reason, and it shot my nerves.  When we arrived in Brussels I felt out of sorts and when I eventually let out what was eating at me the tears came too.  Cado being the sensitive boy he is when told by Daddy why Mommy was sad, quickly apologized and gave me a hug.  And then said, "Are you happy now?"  He doesn't like things to be unhappy.  He is always very concerned if there's ever any tension or strife, and even if Spencer and I are having a political discussion or something we're speaking passionately about, he says, "Don't fight you guys."  And sometimes says, "Jesus doesn't want us to fight."  etc.  He often asks Paisley in the morning or after she's been sad, "Are you happy?" 


After that we just refamiliarized ourselves with the city and visited the palace, palace park, Grand Place, and rode on the metro.  We ate at a Kebab place on Kebab alley.  It was yummy and fun.  The people were very friendly and Cado became their friend.  He even got to go back into their kitchen and they all held him.  When we were about to leave, one asked, "Do you want to stay here with us."  Cado thought for a second and then gave a very diplomatic answer, "I live in Geneva with my Family." 

Then we saw the Mannekin Pis which is a laughable landmark of Brussels.  Its this ridiculously famous peeing boy waterfountain. The boy is only a couple of feet tall.  See Cado's picture for his reaction.  He was cute.  Then we ate GAUFRES.  Mmmmm, so fabulous.  And Cado ran around the Grand Place square.  He was either a racecar driver or a racecar.  He was talking about the race and very intense as he ran in circles and eventually got Dad to join him. Then we bought Daddy his birthday present of Galler chocolate.  The kids had been very concerned and confused as to why on Daddy's bday he didn't get any presents. 


Then we went to the Cinquentenairre monument.  Cado enjoyed playing in the flowers and Spring seemed to be in full bloom on the trees and in the gardens of the park surrounding it.  After that we headed to our hotel and upon walking in were surprised at the upscale looking interior.  I had to take a picture.  I was like, are you sure this is our hotel?  It was really nice looking in our room too and our bathroom, but there was only one bed.  And no cots.  So we set up the quilted cover on the floor for them with their blankets.

Stay tuned for the end of Brussels and our experiences in Holland coming up next!
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harmony on Tuesday April 29, 2008
We drove to Strasbourg on Tuesday 22nd night.  The hotel was a 2 star and was still pretty good, except that there was only one bed.  They did bring a cot though for Cado, and Paisley slept with us.  We headed into Strasbourg and got some patisseries of course, so yummy.  Wed. the 23rd was Spencer's 29th bday.  I had wanted to do something for his bday besides be in a really cool city that he likes, but I happened to get a 2nd eye ulcer the day before the trip, which story I will divert shortly to tell.




So, for those interested in my eye ulcer:
On Sunday night my eyes started burning pretty bad and were really red.  I try to wear my contacts very little because often when I do I get really red eyes, sometimes they hurt and sometimes they just look like they do, but they always get dry.  So, I went to take out the contacts, rinse the eyes, take off the makeup.  Well, the burning continued and then to my shock it started to feel like an object was in my eye, remarkably similar to how it felt before wtih the ulcer.  I kept telling myself it couldn't be and I just needed to sleep, but it grew worse and worse until I reluctantly had to admit that this felt exactly like an eye ulcer.  I looked and the old one is still completely healed, so it must be a new one, which seemed strange to me.  I luckily have medicine left over and started putting it on every time the pain woke me up.  When it became past denial that I had an eye ulcer again I started to cry and told Spencer early in the morning about it.  I was so worried that it would mean we wouldn't be able to go on our trip.  I prayed my heart out that we could still go and that my eye could be healed.  I asked Spencer for a blessing.  He called our friend Brent Cowan and he came over before work and with Spencer gave me a blessing and asked that I could be healed.  I was hoping to open my eyes and have it be gone and not even have to go to the dr.  Well, that wasn't the case.  I did go to the Dr. (who was surprised to see me again with the same problem and told me he had never seen that happen before and couldn't explain it and asked in jest, "do you like to do things differently than everyone else?") and in my mind I kept thinking why?  why can't I just be healed?  I'm trying to have faith, do I not have enough? etc.  I kept praying to have faith and understand.  Well, Brent's wife, my good friend Jennie (who I assume you are pretty familiar with by now) called and offered to take the kids off my hands for the day.  I accepted, and when they left I took a good long, undisturbed nap.  When I woke up, the eye ulcer was all but gone!  Last time my recovery was remarkable, this time I have to say it was miraculous!  I am so grateful for the priesthood and for prayer and for God, who is real, who is my Father and the Father of every person on earth, who loves us and cares about us individually, despite how incomprehensible it is.  I know its true.  By Tuesday morning I hardly felt a thing. And by the evening it was completely gone. I'm not sure whether to continue the medicine or not since it feels completely healed, though last time I took it for weeks.

Okay, so back to Strasbourg.  Its a really neat city with canals and bridges and buildings on the water.  The style of buildlings is unique and very old. The area is called Alsace, and its been influenced by German and French culture, but they speak French and are part of France now.  The main cathedral is amazing.  Its dripping with ornamentation and is red sandstone and huge.  We enjoyed walking around and eating the food.  The lighting was probably the worst for pictures most of the day, with a sky completely covered in fog but bright white.  We ate Flamekeuche or Tarte Flambe which I failed to photograph, sorry and yummy sauerkraut and sausages.  And of course more pastries which is what Spencer said he wanted for his birthday treat.   he got Millefeiulles, cado got an eclair, paisley an apple filled donut and I got a chausson pomme I think, from Paul bakery, soooo good. 



Before we left on the trip when we were packing up the car Cado said, "Do you like those pink trees Momma?"  Because I have told him that I do, they are all over and so beautiful.  Then he said, "on our trip Daddy will see one and cut one off to give to you."  (which prophecy I regret to say did not come true (Spencer...there's still time)  He is always giving me flowers and telling me I'm pretty/beautiful.  I told him he'll make an excellent husband because he's already figured that out. 

As soon as we were out of the car in Strasbourg Paisley fell and cut herself and immediately cried, "I wanna go home."  But she was tough and recovered quickly even without a bandaid.  The kids had fun playing hide and seek in the square where we ate lunch.  They were cute at lunch, Paisley with the chalkboard menu and Cado having his own menu and trying to order like a big person "do you have meat?  yes, I'll have that" (and pointing at the menu).  There were several families of ducks which is so cute.  The mommy and daddy stay together and the chicks were adorable, the kids loved that.  Cado loves street performers and they both always want to stop and dance, and Cado wants to have his own change so he can put it in their hats/buckets.  They also love chasing birds and they always say, "Raaar!" to scare them away. 



We headed up to Luxembourg next and unfortunately had to get dinner at McDonald's, as it is the least expensive option by far.  It was fine, but Switzerland's fries are way better.  When we came out from dinner it was raining which we were unprepared for.  Cado loved running with Daddy to the parking garage in the rain, even though he was the only one without a hood.  Then we decided just to drive in and out of the GRUND exploring it by car.  We kept wondering if the roads we were on were actually meant for cars or not, sort of thinking they probably weren't but there were no signs or restrictions.  Eventually we got to the end of the "road" where it just stopped into a grass hill with no way to turn around but to go onto the grass (where there were other car tire marks already).  The next day we saw a sign saying not to drive there, and we have to admit to being glad of not seeing the sign the day before!  It was fun to explore it that way.  Our hotel that night was quite nice with a bunk bed and seperate room for the kids. 

Stay tuned for more!
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Artigam on Tuesday April 29, 2008
Day 1 sounds wonderful.  Cado is too sweet.  I love his comment about the pink trees.
spencer on Wednesday April 30, 2008
They also speak Alsacian in Strasbourg...



It's always a beautiful city and I especially like the use of sand stone.
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(And I quote from a reliable source: Jesse the yodeling cowgirl toy doll.)

So, we're back from a jam-packed 5 day adventure which took us from here to Strasbourg, France to Luxembourg, to Brussels, Belgium, and to Amsterdam, Holland. We left Tuesday night and got back Sunday night.  Yesterday Cado had a fever of 102, and slept practically all day.  I think it was a result of not sleeping near enough on our trip and all of the driving or stress involved or something.  He had no other symptoms and was fine by the evening. Today Spencer is in London, and tomorrow we find out the gender of this baby inside me!  I really ought to be doing some serious cleaning, unpacking, laundry and grocery getting, but I feel very unmotivated.  So here is the first installment, I'm going to reward myself with further posts after I do some work!

General info on the trip: Besides the times when the kids drove me crazy, even to tears sometimes in the car with their screaming, fighting and Cado's incessant, "Are we there yet? When will we be there?  Why are we not there? When can I get out?  I want to get out!" in the most whiny voice imaginable, the trip was great and I'm super glad we did it!


Cado was funny trying to understand where we were.  He asked pretty much every day questions like, "Are we in Switzerland?  Is this our home?  Where are we?  Why are we in a hotel? " When we got back and Cado woke up yesterday morning in his house he said,"Is this Switzerland?" I asked him if it looked like a hotel or our house and he figured it out from there.  He was anxious every day to get out of the hotel which we did usually by 9 a.m. ish.  But he would constantly say, "I want to go outside! when can I go outside? lets go!"

I wish we did better research on the history of places and also had a better idea of what we're going to do and mapped it out.  And when the kids were at their worst in the car I kept imagining a third child stuffed in the middle and I said, I think this third one may be the end of our travels!  Hopefully thats not the case and our kids get better and we get better at this car travel stuff.  I think partly they're out of practice.  They seemed to do worse on the short drives 2-4 hrs. than on the long 9 hr. drive home.  Let's just say I've had enough of screaming and whining and my left arm is seriously chaffed from twisting around much more often than I like to recall.

So now that the worst of it is out of the way you can enjoy the story of the rest of our trip as I will post each day seperately with its pictures. I think the kids are happy to be home.  Cado asked on the way home if he could have Hunter and Drew come over to play and show his new shoes to, and yesterday Paisley occupied herself all day with toys and things in the house while Cado was sick. So, hopefully we'll recover from the trip soon and have some friends over!
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auntk on Tuesday April 29, 2008
Harmony your trip reminds me of the last time we drove acrossed the country and the kids were in the back of the van asking over and over again Mom are we there yet? Mom I'm thirsty. Mom Braden hit me. Mom.. Mom... Mom.... until I yelled mom is no longer my name she's gone, and Mike said just say hay Lady and we all laughed.  The rest of the trip they would say hay Lady can you hand me a drink.  Those are the memories you will all remember the adventures to fun places and the time spent traveling together in the car.  You are building memories that will bind your family together.
Artigam on Tuesday April 29, 2008
Harmony, you are a great story teller :)   Cado and Paisley in the car remind me of what my parents went through with us.  I have to admit, I remember many times where my dad had to turn around in the front seat .  I think Christin and I were the worst, but we were always in the way back and out of reach.  :)
jmil on Tuesday April 29, 2008
I think all of us with kids and a car can relate.  The same thoughts were going through my head the other day on a short drive to St. George and back.  And I kept telling myself like Kirsten says: "Forget all this whining.  Try to remember the good aspects of this trip."  When I think back to the road trips I took as a kid and they were many.  I don't remember the fighting even though I know there was definitely some.  (6 people packed in a 5 seater car across the US)  But they are some of the best memories of my childhood.  I am sure your kids will think the same.  In the meantime vent all you want  it helps, I know I've been there...
Tami on Wednesday April 30, 2008
First of all, I have great compassion and empathy for children in car-seats. How would you feel if you were so pinned in that you could not even shift your bum and had some huge piece of plastic in the middle of your legs the whole time.  I hate them.  I can't blame kids for wanting to get out.  I understand the goal of the parents to get to the destination as fast as possible but  I think they need to realize the confinement of the kids and make plenty of stops if they can.  That being said it is probably alot worse for Cado and Paisley now that they are so used to traveling by bus and train and not having to be tied down.  Coming home will be an adjustment when you again buy a car. They will get used to it as most kids have no choice.  Even without seat-belts in days of my youth and raising my kids I can relate to the non stop whining and fighting and endless are we there yet questions. It's all part of parenthood. I still remember being lost in San Diego with baby Summer screaming to the top of her lungs and I finally pulled over and cried myself, feeling I just couldn't drive a minute longer.  Carla was amazing at contorting her body so she could still feed Summer in her car-seat. but at that point it wasn't going to work to stop her crying.  Screaming babies are the worst to me.  I got in big trouble pulling Cado out of his seat on one such trip, As mom's we have to have our bags full with goodies, drinks, entertainment and everything else that might help us through, some swear by benedrill, can't blame em!  All in all it still sounds like a good time was had by all, and it still makes me want to travel.  It is so important to have things like trips, little or big to look forward to. Do as much as you can before number 3 arrives.  I think  Cado and Paisley will be great big  helpers  when  the new one arrives.   I love the pictures!!!!!  Thanks for sharing everyone.
Peter312 on Wednesday April 30, 2008
Can't tell you how many times we had to pull over on the side of the road to dish out some punishment to keep the troops quiet.  I was not the most patient one while driving on long trips.  I am sure all of my kids can remember some of those moments.  All and all though the trips were all worth it, and they are memories that can't be replaced. 
Tami on Wednesday May 7, 2008
Do you know ladies that women NEED oxytocin and that oxytocin produces seretonin and seretonin makes us feel good and happy and  that one of the things that makes our bodies produce it is having things to look forward to.  As in a vacation, time alone with your spouse a day with your friends, etc..... and women especially need a girlfriend to talk to or more than one girlfriend.  Talking is very important for women it does help to raise their seretonin  levels.  Just a bit about something I learned today.
harmony on Wednesday May 7, 2008
thats cool mom.  thanks for sharing.  Women really do need other women, and things to look forward to.  I think in general people need to have things going on, purpose, direction, goals, etc. to have happiness, and that the opposite can lead to or increase depression.
Anita on Monday May 12, 2008
Christin and Marin are STILL impossible in the car together! Do you know that they were on a roadtrip together as adults and Marin called ME because Christin was threatening to drop Marin's pet hermit crab that she got at the beach out the window of the car if she didn't put the radio on the music that Christin wanted. Can you believe that! Harmony these blogs give me deja vu!  :)
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harmony on Friday April 18, 2008

I haven't posted videos in awhile because it is such a process!!  So you better appreciate it!
Here are two compilation videos of our crazy and cute kids.  Sorry if the quality isn't so great or if these are not as interesting to watch as I think they are! 
(These are from the last couple months, some as recent as a couple of days ago.)



 

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GrandpaC on Saturday April 19, 2008
Glad to see our great grandkids are already becoming dancing and singing members of this free swinging family !! We certainly enjoy watching them "enjoy"!!
Virginia on Sunday April 20, 2008
Great videos.  Paisley was so cute dancing on her toes and singing "Popcorn Popping".  It was darling when Cado picked Paisley up while she was dancing.  When Cado was pushing the girls on the spinning apparatus at the playground, he seemed so grown-up, so big.  I loved when he was telling about the bugs in his room.  So, you have lots of bugs, huh?  Is the park close to your house?  Thanks for sharing.  Cado and Paisley are certainly growing up.  I am glad you are having another baby.  You would get too comfortable with the ease of raising two pre-schoolers.  Ha Ha
spencer on Sunday April 20, 2008
In the first video the zebra skirt that Paisley is wearing is actually a shirt.  She likes to put it on with the neck around her waist and use it as a skirt.  In fact I think it may be the same thing she is wearing in the phone talking portion of the second video.



oh, we have very few bugs in our house.  Its hilarious the way Cado can pretend and be so dramatic about something fictional.  In fact, up for a few months we hadn't even seen a spider.  We had a lot of bugs in Corona though - that's where the killing bugs is.
spencer on Sunday April 20, 2008
Hey Lauren (Roundy) should write a tutorial on uploading and keeping good quality YouTube videos.  Or I should figure out and write one - but I'd prefer Lauren too.
Peter312 on Sunday April 20, 2008
Very cute, but we had a very hard time downloading the videos, they kept stopping and downloading, is that our speed, or the speed in which they are downloaded, help!!!!
jmil on Sunday April 20, 2008
Cado's lift of Paisley while dancing definitely reminded me of our Basement Ballets.  Aren't you glad your kids are carrying on the family tradition!?! It is so much fun to watch kids' love for music, dancing singing, playing it.... Thanks for sharing the videos.  Some year I will figure out how to do the same.
spencer on Sunday April 20, 2008
@ Peter - Its your speed.



Oh, and FYI - they were dancing to the Barbie Nutcracker DVD
bruce_roundy on Sunday April 27, 2008
Thanks for the videos.  These kids are full of action!  Cado sure reminds me of Spencer.
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harmony on Friday April 18, 2008
Drew and Avery Cowan (our Geneva "cousins") had a birthday party earlier in April put on by their amazing mom, and my great friend, Jennie.  It was tons of fun, and Jennie made lots of yummy food and had games and even goodie bags.  I was very impressed.  The favorite things I think: the yummy American cake mix cake with ice cream, and a room full of balloons!  Our kids all get along really well.  We've been so lucky to make such fabulous friends here.  Our kids really love each other and play well together.  Every time they see each other (at least once a week) they are so thrilled about it and give each other big hugs and smiles.  Avery thinks Cado is the funniest thing ever, and he can't get enough of that!  Paisley is very sweet with Avery, she'll carress her face or hair, and they're always holding hands.  And even though Drew and Cado have totally different interests (trains vs. superheros respectively) they really love to play together and have lots of fun. Enjoy the photos!
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Artigam on Friday April 18, 2008
It really is neat how many wonderful friends you all have made in Switzerland.  I am sure that makes being away from home much easier.  :)
Virginia on Sunday April 20, 2008
I am so happy that you have good friends.  It will be hard to say good-bye to them when you have to leave.  Fortunately, it is easier than ever to stay in touch with modern technology.  But they will have a very special place in your hearts for many years to come. 
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harmony to Bri311nut : your hilarious.  but I knew that.  I haven't read your blurb until now.  I miss you guys. we need to have another skype call.  you know spencer still has never seen 311?  i know, its sad.  so we need to go to a concert.
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harmony to jmil : I love your family picture!  So cute!  I want to see it bigger.
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harmony on Sunday March 30, 2008

B IS FOR BERN AND BERN IS FOR BEARS


We've wanted to go to the temple ever since being here obviously, but it hasn't worked out for so many valid reasons!  But Saturday it worked!  It required so much preparation!  We took the kids with us so we had to think of all that they'd need to stay busy while we took turns in the temple, and we had to bring food for breakfast and lunch, since we left at 6 am.  W
e had to get a
mobility car the night before and load it up early Saturday morning with everything.  But I'm glad we made the effort.  It was well worth it, and we had a nice day there and then in Bern.  Bern is a town obsessed with bears.  There is a bear pit with two bears in it.  Since we were finishing up B week, it was perfect.  We walked and walked and walked through all the cool old town streets with their fabulous fountains and clock towers and churches and cool buildings.  The kids had a great time.  One of the most annoying things about Europe is trying to find a family friendly place to eat--as in affordable, not full of smoke, with kid friendly foods and with a tolerance for kids.  This is actually impossible, which is why we usually are forced to eat at McDonalds.  It is the only place without smoking, and the only place that has all three of the other things--price, food and atmosphere.  We actually got a kebab and fries for me from a kebab stand which was really yummy, one of the best I've had (Kebab places  meet the affordable but nothing else requirement) and then went to McD's for everyone else.  It was a long and fun day, and I'm surprised to find that I'm not as sore as I'd thought I'd be. 


By the way, for those of you wondering, my tummy has popped out now!
(so the baby announced its presence today at church.)
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bruce_roundy on Sunday March 30, 2008
So C for Copenhagen- are you going there next week?  It's great how you go on these family outings and then share the pictures with us.  I really enjoy it.  Thanks
Virginia on Sunday March 30, 2008
I am glad that you got to go to the temple.  What an effort you made to do it!  It it neat to see you into the alphabet weeks.  It is fun to see what you can come up with just by using your creativity.  You will find that many things you do will lend to the letter of the week.  I have files for each letter.  I am happy to share my ideas weekly, but I think you won't have any problem coming up with your own ideas.  I am proud of you.  You are an awesome mom.
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Happy Easter!  Our Easter festivities began last Saturday when we attended the Furner's Easter party at a community center/park.  It was so nice.  They did an amazing job putting it all together and we had a lot of fun.  There was lots of good food and friends, and sunshine!  We then spontaneously got together with the Hiatts and Cowans for a fondue night at our place which was really fun and yummy. 

The next week I started alphabet weeks, with A.  On Monday I didn't know what to do, but Cado kept talking about making a rocket and I'd been meaning to build one with Ikea boxes forever, so I tried to figure out how it had to do with A, and I realized, Astronaut!  So we built a rocket.  The next day we made an Apple Tart, and on Wednesday we looked for Art at the library and in the city. I don't think we kept it going all week, but this idea (from Gma Roundy) helps me have a starting point from which to think of things to do with the kids and be learning at the same time.  It helps me be more focused as a mother, as does the new chore chart program. 

We had the missionaries over for dinner on Thursday.  I was busy cleaning and preparing stuff, so that I could go hang out for awhile in the nice weather with Alma at a park near her.  I left a pot of pinto beans "simmering" on the stove.  When I walked into the apartment building I smelled an awful smokey, burning smell and instantly knew where it was coming from.  I rushed upstairs and opened my door upon which smoke burst forth into my face.  I ran to the pot and discovered the problem, the dial was at 6 in a range of 1-6.  I hadn't been simmering, but boiling.  Minutes after this discovery the missionaries called to see if we were still set for the night.  After stumbling upon my words, slightly explainging the story, I decided it was okay with me, if it was with them.  The meal was fine without the beans, but the apartment still doesn't smell quite right!


Alma called to invite us over for egg decorating that night, which we excitedly accepted.  I'm glad other people had parties and plans that we got invited to!  It was fun.  At one point all us adults were at the table and we heard a cry.  someone thought it was Paisley but I didn't think so, then we looked to where little Evan had been laying and he was gone.  We ran to discover that Cado had carried him across the kitchen and had tripped and dropped him.  We were all shaken and startled and talked to Cado as calmly as we could.  He really loves babies and is very sweet with them, (and they love him too) he just really thought he was big enough to do it!

The next day (Saturday), we made Easter baskets, went shopping for Easter stuff (the kids hung out with Dad in the sort of mall thing, while i shopped) and then rented "Mr. Magoriums wonder emporium."  we liked it.  It started getting colder and snowed a bit this day. 


idealised image of the Good Shepherd Sunday Cado woke up very excited to find the things the Easter bunny had hidden around the house.  Once we got Paisley and Daddy to get up we went looking for the baskets and candy and juice boxes that were hidden in the house.  Then I made a symbolic breakfast of popovers (rises) and fruit (first fruits of them that slept) and grape juice.  After that we had our Easter morning devotional.  We sang some songs, read some scriptures and the testimony of Jesus Christ by the first presidency, and then we watched "The Lamb of God."  I had made some monkey bread the day before so I wrapped that up and we took some to two of our neighbors, to one we just attached a simple scripture and to the other I printed out the Ensign's testimony of Jesus that has pictures with it.  Then we drove to church, which is new, because we were going to the Hillsbergs after who live outside of Geneva and in the snowy foothills.  Dinner at their house was really nice and fun.  They are actually moving to Paris soon, he's a diplomat and they only stay in one place for two years.  I felt how strange it is to be here in such a temporary and yet permanent way.  Two years is long and short. 

The weather is crazy here.  It was sunny and warm just last week and now that Spring is official its gone totally wintry.  For the first time since being here this winter Geneva has snow that is sticking to roofs, cars, bushes and even grass.  Hopefully we'll make some use of it and build a snowman or something. 

Well, We had a nice Easter.  Hope you did too!

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Artigam on Tuesday March 25, 2008

It sounds like a wonderful Easter!  I just have to tell you I love the idea of alphabet weeks!! Such a smart way to come up with fun activities that are full of learning.

Peter312 on Tuesday March 25, 2008
Wow, what a week! 
Virginia on Wednesday March 26, 2008
What a wonderful Easter week with good fun, good food, and good friends.  I am so thankful that you have such great opportunities and wonderful friends to be with.  Way to go with the alphabet activities.



We drove to Idaho for the weekend and had great fun, and great food  with our great family.  Now we are having a great week at the MTC.  Monday night at 9:30 p.m. we went to the MTC to say good night to all our missionaries.  I go to the Sister's residence hall and dad goes to the Elder's residence hall.  Tuesday night we went to the Devotional.  The speaker was Elder W. Douglas Shumway of the Seventy and his wife, Dixie.  We then spent an hour with District C, discussing and bearing testimony of principles that were taught in the Devotional.  Then we had an hour and a half training session for preparation for tonight's meeting with the new district of 10 missionaries that will report to the MTC today.  There will be 4 new Sisters because 4 Sisters left this week.  The MTC is an exciting place to serve.  The missionaries are awesome.  The spirit is very strong and the work is true.  
harmony on Thursday March 27, 2008
How fun to serve at the MTC!  I'm so excited that you and Dad get to have a calling together!  Thats really cool.  It almost makes me want to live in Utah someday (not that we would be gauranteed such a cool calling, but it certainly won't happen in California!)
harmony on Thursday March 27, 2008
So it just occurred to me there is a flaw in my narrative!  I actually skipped Friday, and Friday was fun.  We were finally able to have dinner and hang out with the Gaags.  They had us over to their apartment in Versoix.  Laura made an awesome meal, actually she made two: sloppy joes for the kids and a Thai peanut chicken dish for the adults.  Spencer and I had a little (or a lot) of both.  Then she also had an Alsacian cheesecake for dessert. She's from Alsace which is in Northeastern France (an area where Spencer served.)  The kids had lots of fun, and so did we. They have a Nintendo Wii which was a blast.
Peter312 on Thursday March 27, 2008
So far I am the champ in our home in Wii, at least with bowling and golf, so be prepared to take me on!!!
jennie on Saturday March 29, 2008

I'm trying to figure out how to download pictures from your site...can you help?  Thanks for taking such great pictures of our kids also!! 

harmony on Sunday March 30, 2008
To download pictures you have to be logged in - then click the "download" link right above the picture.  This shows you the full-size picture that was uploaded (usually).  If it doesn't save to your computer, then right-click on the picture and choose "save picture as..."



That's actually how you can save any picture off the Internet to your computer.



Of note - Harmony doesn't usually upload the full quality pictures because it takes too long.  Therefore, if you want pictures to print out - just put a comment on the pictures like "hey I want this...".  Then Harmony will send them too you via email.



Hope that all helps.
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harmony to vmogle : So, now you need to invite your family and friends to join you and see your stuff.  I think its so much better than sending email updates most of the time, easier to view pictures and stuff.  plus people who connect to you will recieve emails when you do new stuff. thanks for telling me to check my email, your email was in my junk folder! wierd.

and CONGRATULATIONS! Another girl??? crazy!
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harmony to vmogle : Wow!  can this be!  Its too good to be true!  Krystal, now you.  I have really wanted to hear from you!! I'm looking forward to seeing you and your family photos and hearing about your life!
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harmony to jmil : so you should send invites to my parents, and brian and josh, if you haven't already.
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harmony on Monday March 17, 2008



It was so fun to have an ultrasound done today!  The facility is very nice too and the technician was very personable and did a great job.  I was amazed at how perfectly formed and complete the baby is.  It looks just like the ultrasounds I've seen of my babies at around 20 weeks.  Everything is there.  I was also surprised by how much the baby was moving and kicking.  At one point it was like bouncing off its back. It was really fun to watch.  I am 14 weeks, my due date is September 12th.  She said the baby is perfect and healthy and beautiful!  I will have the gender ultrasound on April 30th.  So stay tuned!  Enjoy the photos of baby!  

I am over the first trimester stuff, YAY! but have been experiencing a lot of lower back pain and general soreness and achiness whenever I do anything active which makes me feel really bad about the state of my body!  But the lower back aching may be increased by the fact that I have a tilted or tipped or retroflexive uterus, which means that my uterus is slightly behind the cervix instead of above it.  It should move into correct position soon, but I am consulting my doctor and making sure that it does. 

When our neighbor came over tonight to borrow our blow dryer Cado said, "do you want to see our baby?"  The neighbor doesn't know anything about us, so he assumed it was there, outside my tummy, so he asked, "is it a boy or girl?" And Cado said, "Oh, we don't know yet."  It was cute.  He's excited.  He gives my belly kisses and asks about it sometimes. 
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bruce_roundy on Monday March 17, 2008
Wow! A real baby!  And active already!  This should be exciting.
krystalbremer on Monday March 17, 2008
Crazy stuff girl!  Another baby!  I am so excited for you and I can't wait to see you in June.  It sounds like your going to have another Cado - active all the time!!
harmony on Monday March 17, 2008
KRYSTAL?? WOW!  Hi gorgeous!  its so good to see your beautiful smiling face!  I'll have to figure out how to send you and invite and you can send me one too.
jennie on Tuesday March 18, 2008

The neighbor borrowed your hair dryer again?!?  What's the excuse this time :)  Can't wait for "Roger"'s friend to get here!

vmogle on Wednesday March 19, 2008
Krystal told me you are pregnant, CONGRATULATIONS!  Now check your email!
docenah on Thursday March 20, 2008
I'm sure this baby will be as beautiful as your other babies too, although it's hard to tell by these alien looking ultrasounds. Congratulations, again. It's a relief to have an ultrasound and know that you didn't feel well for a good reason.

Docena
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